Alex - posted on 10/14/2014 ( 19 moms have responded )
I am so unhappy right now. I feel like my Fiance is getting too close with his Ex girlfriend (only for court purposes)...She mothered his two children...But she also completely ruined his life and was HORRIBLE to him for years. Now, the courts are forcing them to interact with each other and I absolutely hate it. Neither of her children want anything to do with her. She is drug addicted, she abuses alcohol, and shy lies about everything.
Today, my fiance took our daughter to the doctor's to have a check up..didnt even TELL me about it...and an hour after it's over...he finally tells me that he invited her mother and that it was "pleasant".
I am SO irritated right now. Things like this have been ongoing and I am so fed up with it all.
I want nothing to do with her, or her toxic lifestyle and I ESPECIALLY want my fiance to have nothing to do with her.
I am about 3 steps away from canceling the wedding (not our lives..) just the stress of planning is getting to me with all of this going on....Until he gets his priorities with our family straight.
I don't feel like he is putting us first...and I would never expect him to do that with his daughter...but absolutely before his crazy ex..