Jennifer - posted on 09/09/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
My girls are young teenagers and even though their father has been physically there while we were married for 13yrs he has never had anything to do with my girls. He did not allow them to sit and watch TV with us he simply always wanted them away from him. This was not a huge issue because all I did was be mom so with pageants dance basketball cheerleading and music lessons we were not home a lot before homework bath and bed. I always hid his motives from them so after the divorce they tried having a relationship with him but as I stated before he of course did not want it. Now that my girls have excepted the fact that he doesn't care if they are around or not. I have allowed them to decide when they want to go and when they don't. Now the stepmom is all over Facebook saying they are disrespectful to their dad. That I am abusive to them because they don't see him. they have blocked the stepmom the dad the grandmother and the stepbrothers but she is still getting on other peoples Facebook to post things to direct them at my girls they come tome asking what they should do I am at a lost on advice for them. It upsets them I can ignore it. They should not have to give up Facebook because of adults its so frustrating, when kids have to pay for adults behavior.