I am I wrong feeling this way ?

Denisse - posted on 01/22/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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When I was pregnant . My babys father had sex with a woman that was 36 years old and he was 23 at the time . We weren't in a relationship status but we were treating each other like we were. I feel betraded in the most vonirable stage in my life. I strongly dislike this women because at a time she was pregnant but she gave her son away. I thought maybe this woman would have compassion that I was pregnant and respect my pregnancy but didn't . I feel today she still doesn't respect my son or me . She feels so freely to talk to my babys father since she is the reason he got the job in the first place because she is the human resources director and he is a customer rep at the place they both work . He tells me he feels forced to talk to her . I strongly dislike the woman that now she knows we are in a relationship she still talks to him wants to hangout with him. calls him sweets it bothers me . I feel disrespect and feel she is dancing around of joy of disrespecting me . AM I Wrong to feel this dislike to this woman ?

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Dove - posted on 01/22/2013

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Maybe he should start looking for another job. Of course, keeping the one he has in the meantime, but getting a new job far away from her would probably be good for your relationship.

Dove - posted on 01/22/2013

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Of course you aren't wrong to have strong feelings about this situation. I do have to wonder why you are in a relationship with a man who has so little respect for you that he would continue to willingly (unless he is working under her or directly with her there is no reason he should be obligated to talk to her) interact with a woman he had sex with while you were pregnant with his child. Yeah, she is being quite disrespectful to your relationship and I don't blame you for disliking her, but you aren't IN the relationship with her.... you're in it with him.

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Denisse - posted on 01/22/2013

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yeah ! back then he had a drug problem now he is sober . He has been treating me good . I gave him a chance to work things out because we have a sontogther I don't want my son to feel the emptyness that I feel when I was a kid without a father but this woman is looking for him . She is the one to approve or to approve his promotions . He feels force to get along with her .People think I should have compassion for a woman like her that she was forced to give her child away because her ex husband forced her to save there marriage. I guess this woman doesn't know to respect. He has treated me right and changed alot but part of me guess upset in his way he tries hard but this woman doesn't quit

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