I am in need of some advice regarding the custody of my daughter.

Brandy - posted on 08/12/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have never done anything like this, I seldom reach out for help. I am not sure how to explain my situation but I would like to start with where I am today. The reason I am seeking advice is because I would like to gain full custody of my daughter. I do not want her bio father to have any rights. That is not to be mean or selfish, I have my reasons. Let me try to elaborate, I was 19 when I moved in with Carlos and 6 short months later I got pregnant. Things were not picture perfect though.. Far from it. Carlos dealt dope and did it too. He would drink and start fights just for the hellabit. E.g I remember one time I made him angry (for whatever reason) and he grabbed my cell charger wrapped it around my neck and pulled really tight. There are so many occasions these things happened, sometimes worse. He has raped me numerous times and threatened to take my daughter somewhere I will never find her. I cannot recall all of the crap I dealt with. Not just me but my daughter most importantly. Well obviously that did not go on forever because April 12th 2009 is when he went on the run from the law. He was free for 8 months and not once did he call, go to my moms to see Taty, NOTHING. Well December of the same year I moved Taty and myself to Utah to be with my, now, husband. People would say they seen him and what not but he did not seem to care that our daughter was waiting on him to come back. The problem I am having with the custody issue is that he is illegal, not to mention all the dv's and warrants, probation violations.... And I cannot prove any of it. I have witnesses that can testify to the abuse and lack of parenting. He did basically abandon her. If anyone reads this please any advice that may even help just the slightest would greatly appreciated. I guess I am wondering what I should do for my particular situation. I read a little bit off the internet about custody. Thanks

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Brandy - posted on 08/13/2013

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Well I am on fb as well, Brandy Hernandez or email brandyhernandez34@gmail.com. Thanks for the quick response. I could use all the help I can get.

Sondra - posted on 08/12/2013

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Brandy hi my name si sondra and I literally fought a 9 year battle with my baby dad not because he wanted custody because he has many daemons add one is his biggest enemy...I'll try to make this short i got a pretty good idea of what u are facing and I would be more than willing to help! After 9 years of court between rotcction orders him kidnapping our child dqrig use and istalking I know every single way to go about filing the correct papers and ok moving forward, I don't know where u r so if want to emai its snskolnick@gmail. Or fb is another option let me know
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