I am in the hospital, and to take my mind off of it.....

Elizabeth - posted on 06/30/2016 ( 35 moms have responded )

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I just found out the babies diagnosises, and I need to share them with someone. My husband works and he is not here.

Autumn has spina bifida
Gracelynn has mild cerebral palsy
Abigail has moderate cerebral palsy
Julianna has spina bifida
Elizabeth has a brain injury
Ariel has spina bifida

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Jodi - posted on 07/01/2016

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Little Miss, I think a few more questions were asked because there was suspicion. You weren't around much when we had the previous trolls doing the same things, so you probably didn't see the connection (not your fault, just the way it is). In fact, there were 3 or 4 in a row with the same or similar stories and it never added up, they disappeared and then another profile would pop up. I would say Sarah asked questions, like I did, to get some sort of gauge that this was a similar troll situation, rather than genuine. It's much easier to out someone with more information than making the accusation from the outset.

For the life of me, I still don't understand someone bullshitting about special needs kids.....it's sick and really pathetic.

Sarah - posted on 06/30/2016

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Ok then I am going come out with it.
This post is a total lie. First, 6 female living sextuplets is news worthy, any mother carrying that many babies know exactly how many weeks and days gestation she is when she delivers. CP cannot be diagnosed at birth, and even if it could be there is no way to tell the degree of mild, moderate or severe so early. Micro-preemies are weighed in grams not pounds as a rule. A police officer, unless he is the chief, would not be pulled from the bedside of his new preemies to work. That is why the FLMA leave exists.

What really iced the cake for me were the kids names; interestingly someone named Sarah has three girls with the names Abigail, Juliana, and Ariel. What are the odds that Sarah and Eilzabeth both have 7-8 babies, that share names, and have special needs and they both happen to post here.

http://www.circleofmoms.com/mothers-of-s...
I apologize about not outing the post from the start.

Elizabeth - posted on 06/30/2016

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Spina bifida occulta

Also, Sarah E. They found out because they fan all kinds of tests. She was diagnosed 3 1\2 hours after birth.

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Dove - posted on 07/01/2016

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Worrisome sounds like someone who desperately needs some help. The one you don't know about is hidden, so I don't know either.

Sarah - posted on 07/01/2016

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I looked at the links you provided and I find two of the four to be sketchy. These two seem legit, as one is about adults and the other has a definite language barrier:
http://www.circleofmoms.com/about_me/214...
http://www.circleofmoms.com/about_me/214...

We had a run about 2-3 months ago from several posters, Sarah, Ashley, Brittany, and Shannon all were mothers of 6-8 kids, usually girls most with SN. There were obvious red flags, like being 19 and adopting, not being able to describe school needs, and when you looked at the kids they had the same birthdays. Those all got shut down and then this one popped up. I suspect these were all the same person who posted here.
Again, I apologize to everyone for not just closing this down, I should have. There was just this little part of me that is human and was curious to see what would play out. Once I saw new members chiming in with sympathy, I did clarify matters on the other thread she shared.

Sarah - posted on 07/01/2016

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Little Miss, I knew right away, and I know I should have contacted the OP and reported the post. I should not have let it go on, as others were sympathetic and that is what encourages posts like this to continue to pop up.

Dove - posted on 07/01/2016

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I don't know... I'm too tired to play detective at the moment. I did look at one 30 weeker post... but there's just one baby, so at first, brief glance I would 'assume' it's totally plausible. I think we need Jodi and Sarah E to be the detectives around here. ;)

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/01/2016

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You and me both love. Take a look through all the links to see if this is red flags for the same person making multiple accounts. Some of them are written in the same fashion as this post.

Dove - posted on 07/01/2016

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No worries Little Miss. I was pissy at the world yesterday... I didn't want to 'fight' w/ you, but it wasn't you that set me off... so instead of GOING off... I walked away. ;) lol

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/01/2016

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I have blocked this person. I am so disgusted that anyone would lie about any mental illness or physical disability. Only a sociopath would do this, or someone with other mental illness.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/01/2016

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That really makes me upset that someone would lie about this. What a seriously horrible human being. No, I guess I missed all that before. Sorry Dove, I was an asshole.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/01/2016

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I am glad you brought this to light. This is on the OP for lying. Trying to play with others feelings. Sarah, why wouldn't you out this from the start? Just curious. Did you want to see how far she would take this?

This site used to be fun. This site used to be helpful. Now it is constantly bombarded with spam, we have no help from management, and there are barely new people on here.....just trolls like this.

Michelle - posted on 07/01/2016

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I also didn't think CP could be diagnosed so early, especially mild cases. I know a girl that has mild CP and she didn't get diagnosed until the age of 2. Her Mother is a midwife as well so she would have picked up on something being wrong earlier than that.
I though the names were familiar as well as having the older kids. Sextuplets would have made the news, even if it's just a share on FB and this hasn't and any pregnant woman would know what gestation she is when she gives birth.

Jodi - posted on 07/01/2016

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Thanks Dove. I did wonder. But I was wondering how such mild spina bifida was diagnosed at this age too.

Dove - posted on 06/30/2016

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Jodi... I made a few comments that I deleted. Mainly links on how and when they diagnose cerebral palsy (like that only severe cases could possibly be diagnosed at birth... mild to moderate can take 2-5 years to diagnose), but I was in a royally pissy mood this morning and chose to delete my comments instead of continuing... as there was no hate or bullying being posted. Simply factual links and minor comments of doubt.

Jodi - posted on 06/30/2016

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Elizabeth, spina bifida occulta is relatively harmless, so you shouldn't be too concerned about that part of things. I'm sure your doctors have explained that to you though. Many people actually go through life with it and don't even realise they have it because there are no symptoms. You were lucky they even picked it up.

Jodi - posted on 06/30/2016

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I'm confused, Little Miss. Noone here said anything remotely resembling bullying? Did I miss some posts?

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/30/2016

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You know what? There is a lot of hate in this world. A lot of bullying behind a screen. A ton of "I'm right your wrong" bullshit. I am choosing to emotionally support this women. Why? Cause if there is someone so awful to lie about all their babies being disabled, then that is a real piece of shit. But, what does that make me if she is telling the truth? What if this is what her doctors are telling her? If she is doing this for attention, it will come out. If it is real, we may never know. I am personally not going to badger this women.

So Elizabeth, if you are telling the truth, so much love and hugs sent your families way. It is really unfortunate your husband is not there to give you strength. If you are lying, go find something better to do than harass moms who actually care about others. Either way, best of luck.

Elizabeth - posted on 06/30/2016

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Thanks so much. The 2 other kiddos are at my mom's house. They didn't think that Elizabeth Jr. Would survive bit she did!

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