I am leaving to work abroad and i will leave my 3 year old son
Dove - posted on 08/17/2015
There is nothing in the world that would cause me to leave any of my children for a whole year... Nothing.
That being said... this isn't really about you. It is about your child and HIS feelings on the situation. Yes, it will be hard on you for sure, but the only way to handle it is to just get through it. Focus on the work you will be doing and on the Skype conversations w/ your son. Try and stay happy and calm when you are talking to him and save the crying for later. You can distract yourself w/ movies and books in your quiet alone time... Make friends where you are going and try to get out to dinner or a movie or just hanging out w/ them regularly.
It's not the same thing, but when my kids are w/ their dad for a month and I'm feeling sentimental I scroll though all my pictures of them on Facebook.
Estrella - posted on 08/17/2015
I am still here with him,what i meant is that when im going abroad what am i going to do to cope,i will leave him with my aunt,yes granting that everyday we will be on skype though but in times like as a mother there are times that you want to cuddle wanting to hug your child is it helpful to browse all those memories?coz emotionally it is very agonizing is there anyway or anything i can do?
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