Keva - posted on 05/06/2012 ( 40 moms have responded )
I am madly in love with my best friend, he's told me that he loves me yet not in love with me. We are sexually active, spend a lot of time together, but no real relationship is coming out of all of this! I have been honest with him in letting him know how I feel and he just lets me know he loves me, but not that way. My issue is that he acts like he's in love with me at times. When other men are around he makes sure he's there and spends the night with me. We have been close for about 3 to 4 yrs. I have tried to let this feeling go, but it's not going anywhere! I try to distance myself from him and i miss him so and so does he because he seeks me out! He's also told me that he wants more, but doesn't go into details about it, he says that I am too sexual and I can't help my sexuality and he appears to love it. I get confused by us, my friends say we should just get over this crazy dance we are doing and get together! it's not me, it's him! Please Advise!!!