Jennifer - posted on 01/22/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I just found out that Im pregnant with my 4th child. The father and I have been apart for about 9 months, but still "dating" and being together. I was on the pill and clearly it didn't cut it. ANYHOW. I am a single mom of currently 3 beautiful daughters who are 5, 4, and 14 months. I told the father last night what our situation is and he flipped. He is trying to force me to play god and get an abortion. He is saying that he doesnt want another child which is understandable. But we got ourselves into this and I refuse to harm a baby. I am not happy with the fact that I am going to be a single mommy of 4, but I will do it and I know once he or she gets here I will Love this baby with all my heart. I just dont know how to deal with the father... he is making me feel like a horrible person. Telling me this is all my fault and I need to "take care" of it or he will hate me forever and this and that.. just the most horrible things he can think of to say. I just need some positive advise because I have not told anyone in my family or my friends yet.