I am so over whelmed!!

Nicole - posted on 01/01/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am so over whelmed! Stay at home mom. My son is almost 9 months old. I feel so tired and under apreciated for what I do. I have no hobbies really. I have no extra money to do anything away from the damn house. I moved away from my friends and family because of my husband's job. They are something like 1700 miles away:( I feel like I will never be good enough, I fight with my husband about taking care of our son. I mean my husband was home for over a week an half and bitched about taking care of him, and looked at me to do it all. I just recently moved, so the unpacking is crazy and still not even close to being done. I had to re-wash all the clothes from the move, and the dishes too! My husband does some laundry, won't touch a dish, barely changes the diapers(expectionally if poopy)! I have no friends, can't drive the car because it is manual and brand new( so he babys it) No babysitter, I don't know a soul where I live, I never leave but to do little errands with the husband. He doesn't buy me little gifts, barely acknowledges me unless the baby is fussing or he wants some fun time! My husband doesn't really have any friends either, he rather be on studpid games, read anime, and watch tv shows. I am beginning to hate the fn computer, sometimes I feel like it is the mistress I'm being replaced with! Someone please tell me I am not the only one going through this!!! HELP!

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Aww, It sounds Like Your Having A Bad Time Hun, I Can't Suggest Anything Cos I Don't Know Much About Las Vegas, But If You Ever Want To Chat PM Me xx

Nicole - posted on 01/02/2013

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Las Vegas,NV. Don't have money for activities, and the most my son does is demand food, his nap and chew on his toys still. He babbles and loves baths and likes to be held and walked around the house. I have told him I'm not happy, and not adjusting to great, he knows because I cling to the computer where I only get somewhat of a social life. I'm very cautious, because this is not my home, everyone including people I talk to here could end up being not who they claim to be.Bottom line I am here, I get blamed for everything if its done and not done. I think the only way he will be happy is if i find a full time job and sign over the checks to him:( In all honestly I loved being away from him when he was in training school, i had the check book, we were not broke, and I got to be around my friends while me and my son felt wanted and needed. At this point in time though, even if I had extra money it wouldn't be mine, and it would probably pay the many bills we have( a good thing)! I'm use to being on the back burner, a lot more now that I take care of our son and he is my world:)

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Hey, I'm Not Going Through This But I thought I'd Try And Help, Where About's Do You Live? Is there Nowhere You Can Go Like Little Activites With Your Child? Or Like Socail Groups? With Your Husband Mine Doesn't Do That Much But Only because He Goes out To Work For Me And My Son So I Do Things, But I Would Sit Down And Talk To Him About It And Tell hIm Your Not happy and your feeling really low that he's not helping or making a fuss of you, thinking of you hun xxx I'm Posting again because I've got a different account xx

Becky - posted on 01/02/2013

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Hey, I'm Not Going Through This But I thought I'd Try And Help, Where About's Do You Live? Is there Nowhere You Can Go Like Little Activites With Your Child? Or Like Socail Groups? With Your Husband Mine Doesn't Do That Much But Only because He Goes out To Work For Me And My Son So I Do Things, But I Would Sit Down And Talk To Him About It And Tell hIm Your Not happy and your feeling really low that he's not helping or making a fuss of you, thinking of you hun xxx

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