I am so ugly, I cant be afraid to be beautiful

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I am so ugly, I cant be afraid to be beautiful because I couldnt be beautiful if I tried. The girls at my church are so much prettier than me especially this one girl who was going on and on in a FB post about being afraid to be beautiful because others may get the wrong idea that she is trying to be inappropriate or slutty or something. This is what she said "Sometimes I am afraid to be beautiful. Literally, afraid to dress nice or to be attractive or even sexy, because sometimes I think that I could come off as inappropriate or immodest. Crazy right?? This summer I've bought myself this nice high waisted bikini that looks AWESOME on my (not so tiny) body, and I am fighting thoughts of what others might think! I've had enough of that, I'm gonna rock my new swimwear!! 👊🏼💥
I want to hear your thoughts on this ladies!! Let's be real here, we've all probably been through this one way or another! What is a scripture that comes to your mind when you read this? The one that comes to me is Song of Songs 4:7..."You are altogether beautiful my darling, there is no flaw in you."
Let's be empowered and beautiful together! And not be afraid to face the world in purity and boldness! Please share a picture of your favorite summer outfit and an empowering scripture to go with it! Love you ladies! And let's not even care what others might think! 1-2-3 GO! Let's do this! 💪🏼"And she tagged every other girl in my small group except me saying I know you girls can relate, and you are all beautiful. But she didnt tag me, probably because she thinks Im not beautiful. Yeah I wish I had that problem, its no wonder she and the other girls dislike me because I am so ugly.

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Sarah - posted on 07/01/2016

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Crystal, are you reading the replies? You never respond. You just wait a few days a post a new problem. Do you not see there is a problem with your behavior?

Sarah - posted on 07/01/2016

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Oh heavens Crystal, you need to get some help. She didn't tag you because she does not think you pretty but your friendship is not important to her. She didn't show you her post about moving and she did not ask you to help her move. She did not hug you good-bye either. She was not your friend long ago so cut bait; focus on those who do love you from the inside out.
Why are you scoping out her Facebook posts anyway. Turn off your computer, spend some time in prayer and self-reflection and get on with making new friends. Sitting on a pity pot is not going to get you anywhere. No one like a pouter. If you are beautiful on the inside, then you have nothing to fear. Get to work on that! Insecurity, clingy behavior, and self doubt are not beautiful.
I have a daughter who is a knockout, but what she is known for at school is her volleyball skills, her brains, her kindness to all, and her passion for animals. Her looks are way down on the list for what attracts people to her.

Dove - posted on 07/01/2016

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She doesn't like you... we've made that as clear as humanly possible (and quite bluntly and rudely) to you several times.

Get the hell over it and yourself already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By the way... inner beauty is really the only beauty that matters... if you get therapy to work on that then any outer beauty issues will disappear.

Ev - posted on 07/01/2016

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I was always told that beauty is more on the inside than the outside. This is a true statement. All outward beauty disappears in time but inner beauty is forever. I do have a daughter that was considered cute in school and she knew it but she never used it to her advantage or to make fun of others. She also had that inner beauty that shone so much more over the outer beauty....but guess what--she has both. And she is the sweetest person on this planet that I know of her age group.

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