Tynille - posted on 06/30/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
I recently got married & things with my step kids have just got worse. Their mother is a real number and i am not just saying that to sound like the jealous new wife, i have tried to be friend this woman and make it better for the kids but she has just made my life hell. I am good friends with my ex and father of my childs girlfriend, we even help each other out with baby sitting. It has been a tough road with the 3 x girls and trying to cement a new family but she just keeps screwing it up. My daughter (age 5) just adores the other 2 x girls (age 6 & 8) but their mother has made sure that she will poisen the girls to not like me or my or my daughter. She has even moved them away about 5 hrs away from their father because she cant stand being near us. Lets not even get onto the maintenance that he pays her and she doesnt even work! So recently my hubby went to go see the girls, i couldnt go cause i couldnt get off work, when he left on the Sunday he was heart broken and i shouldnt have but i sms her saying she has broken him by moving the kids away and i am sure she is happy. She proceeds to send me a trail of sms telling me how the girls hate my daughter and i and they roll their eyes whenever i speak to them on the phone and they despise having to say i love you to me or my daughter. I dont know what to do anymore its so hurtful and i have really tried my best with these girls. They are coming to us for the school holidays and i feel like running away!! I just dont know what to do anymore.