I AM THE ONLY MOTHER SHE HAS EVER HAD..WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Gina - posted on 01/07/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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ME AND ME EX ARE GOING THRU A BATTLE BECAUSE I TURNED HIM IN TO CPS FOR GIVING MY DAUGHTER A FAT LIP AND SHE WAS REMOVED FROM HIS CARE . I AM FIGHTING TO SEE HER NOW BEACAUSE HIM AND HIS FAMILY ARE KEEPING HER FROM ME AND USING THE FACT THAT I AM NOT THE BIOLOGICAL MOTHER. I AM THE ONLY MOTHER SHE HAS EVER KNOW IN HAVE BEEN IN HER LIFE FOR OVER 4 YEARS. SINCE SHE WAS 1 YEARS OLD. i GAVE HER A LIFE SHE HAS NEVER HAD CUZ THEY LIVED A VERY DYSFUNCTIONAL LIFE AND IN POOR CONDITIONS . i WAS THE SOLE PROVIDER. HER FATHER AND I SPLIT BECAUSE OF HIS DRUG ADDICTION AND IN THE 7 MONTH PERIOD OF OUR BREAK UP I HAD HER A MAJORITY OF THE TIME UP UNTIL I TURNED HIM IN THEN HE WANTED TO DECIDE I WASNT HER MOM ANYMORE. HIS FAMILY THAT HAS HER RIGHT NOW WOULDNT EVEN LET ME GIVE HER XMAS PRESENTS I HAVE GOT AN ATTORNEY BUT JUST TRYING TO GET MORE ADVICE I HAVE BEEN AN EMOTIONAL WRECK BECAUSE NOW HE IS TRYING TO TAKE HER 4 STATES AWAY TO A UNSTABLE LIVING AND ALCOHOL AND DRUG FILLED ENVIRONMENT...WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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I think you should keep fighting or find a relative of her's that IS in a stable environment and try to get them to fight for her. What about her biological mother? Is the woman deceased or just 'missing in action'?

I don't really know what you can do. My brother has been Dad to his stepson since the boy was 2.5 (18.5 now) and my nephew hasn't seen or heard from bio father since he was 8. When his mother was going through a cancer scare in my nephew's mid teens my brother was so scared that she would die cuz then he knew he would lose his son since he has no legal claim to him.

Good luck! I hope your attorney can find a loop hole for you to keep this little girl safe.

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