I been with other half for 13 yrs and now we are going to get married I dont want to change my last name he think that that is disrecpect is it ?

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Hilda - posted on 01/25/2013

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I want to thank you for your comments and for sharing your advise I will consider it . My son now just turn 18 and he loves him so much he says that he wish that even though they don't carry the same blood he is his Father not Daddy . This means a lot to me to make the right decision .I cant thank you enough .

Holly - posted on 01/25/2013

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ok here is what i would consider.... If you were not going to take his name, don't, but if you would consider it, if his family members were not do disrespectful, i would do it, i would try not to think of it as taking THEIR name, it is HIS name, you are becoming HIS wife... and even your SON wants his last name... that should count for alot, considering he is i would assume ofer the age of 13, he must really look up to this man.

Hilda - posted on 01/25/2013

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My oldest is from my first marriage but he wants to change it because he says that my better half is his one and only father .

Holly - posted on 01/25/2013

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is your son HIS son? are you wanting to keep you and your son with the same last name?

Hilda - posted on 01/25/2013

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At first it was because his family never should me nor my oldest son any respect for many years and never had accepted us (my son and I ) . Now they do ,
but I just don't know .

Holly - posted on 01/25/2013

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i think that either way is fine. changing it or not changing it. what is your reasoning behind not wanting to change it?

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