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I understand what everybody going through. My son father will call him and ask what he want for his birthday, my son told him a bike. His dad say ok, I will buy you a bike. My son ask his dad 5 times for a bike, a year past by, still no bike. My son asked his dad for a bigger TV because my son have a 19inch but my son want a 32 inch for his room. His dad said ok, 6 months later no TV. Dude keep sending my son off, telling him he will come get him but don't show up. Now my son don't care about his dad at all and I don't blame him. My son said he don't want nothing to do with him. If his dad calls, my son refuse to answer the phone. My son said he don't want to talk to him. Make it really bad, his dad work full time have his own apartment and a truck and haven't seen his son in 2 years and he live 30 minutes away from me. The only thing I get from his dad is child support and lucky I received that because alot of women don't. His dad will call and disrespect me and pretend it's all about our son, lies. Lies and more lies because if dude care he would come see his son and buy those items for our son but he didn't do it. Now my son and I just moved on because actions speak louder than words. I will never keep my son from his father, however I refuse to be disrespect and have his dad continue to tell my son he will do something and never do it. Also he keeping himself from my son and my 5year old son know his dad full of crap. Therefore we don't need his father at all.