Lauren - posted on 04/12/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )
my husband and i married for 8 years and involved for almost ten years. we were both married before. since day one they never accepted me and i was called lotsa bad names. it seems they blaming me for entering his first marriage which was not the case. Up until now my husband go mad if i dont go with him to his family gatherings and he is more worried what his family going to say. just the mere fact that his father want to confront me and telling me crap when i don't go to them. i dont feel myself and when they crap on me my husband is mad with me because i don't do as they say. now because they want to tell me it then make me more not wanting to go them. my husband is fine with my family and we don't go to my family so much i myself dont go to my family as much. i just can't deal with this anymore. then my husband want to tell me i wanna be the boss. i never had this in my previous marriage my mom did not even tell me. i mean i am not a child. and it as though my husband allow them to be like this with instead of standing up for me just like i stand up for him so many times. at times i feel i wanna get out of this marriage so that i dont need this in my life. i mean almost ten years later and it the same thing over and over again. why can't my husband just leave me to it and let me be who i am, i told him i did not marry him with his parents. i just don't feel myself with them....