Amanda - posted on 05/12/2015 ( 12 moms have responded )
My step son is 3 years old. But I can't stand him. I can't stand when my husband even mentions his mother. I've seen many articles on people not liking their step children that I can some what relate to. The problem is I've known my husband for 5 years. We started dating 3 years ago and been married almost a year. We have two childre. Tovether 2 year old and a 1 year old. Here's where it starts though. My husband never seen his soon until our daughter was 2 months old. And only seen his son 2 times then. Then all the sudden I have our 1 year old and my SS comes into our life again. My husband is always yelling and screaming at HIS son. Saying how he cant handle it, wants to sign his rights over. He is like a monster. We constantly fight when he is around. Not just that this 3 year old is mean to my kids kicks them down and sits on my one year old. Also, my step son has wipes his poop on the wall.. takes his diaper off and pees everywhere. Kicks and screams at me and his father. Will make his nose bleed when he doesnt get his way. Will throw his food around anf spit his drinks out. I love love love my husband and everything is relaxing and great when my SS is not here... I can't deal with it anymore. My husband acts fake when people are at our house making it seem like he wants them there. But as soon as peope leave he is that monster again. I don't want to leave my husband but I don't want to constantly go through this and have our kids go through this. And please no harsh comments. No one is perfect. But my husband did not paint this picture into my head when he asked me to marry his. His son was not part of the picture ever but twice until after I had OUR son. If I knew how life was going to be before I married him. Sad to say but I would have ran. But I love my husband when its just out family. And sorry if my story is everywhere.. Im just so upset.