Rochelle - posted on 10/14/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have 3 boys ages 12, 8, and 6. Last night I caught my song viewing adult video game tutorials on Youtube through his cell phone. The game was called Temptress Skyrim. I'm so shocked! His grandmother bought him a smartphone back in August against my wishes. His father told me that he put privacy settings on it so I thought I would soften up and let him have a cell phone. Recently I noticed that he would jump suddenly when I would come in his room at night. While he was sleep I went in and took the phone out of his room to look through it. As soon as I closed my door he was knocking on my door aggressively saying he needed his phone. I opened the door and he tried to take the phone from me saying that he needed to set his timer. He was totally out of character. I've never seen him like this. Of course, his story did not make a load of sense to me. I looked through his history and he was looking at videos on Youtube of a game that showed nude or barely dressed women. I'm so upset I let him have a cell phone. He typically likes playing video games and I have taken them all away, including the cell phone. My son was crying heavily last night and I was trying to call him down so I could speak with him. I know he is growing up, but he knows better than this! Any advice or suggestions?