Janet - posted on 05/16/2017 ( 4 moms have responded )
My name is Janet. New to Circle of Moms. I'm 35 and my step son is only 9 years old. I wear flats or low heals everyday to work. About 2 weeks ago I awoke from a nap on the couch after work, walked upstairs to my bedroom, and saw my step son licking the bottoms of the flats that I wore that day to work. His little 9 year old tongue was licking the dirt off the bottoms of my shoes! Why? I was so taken back. However I said nothing and quickly backed out of the bedroom without him seeing me. Since that day , I have noticed that my shoes, especially my flats are completely spotless clean on the bottoms. And they are not always in the same spot that I left them. Obviously he's licking and playing with my shoes when I am not home. I also now notice him constantly starring at my feet and shoes. He's a good boy, and we have always gotten along. His father is away sometimes a week at a time because of work. So a lot of the time it's just my step son and I. I really don't know how to approach this situation without making it completely awkward between us. Should I embrace this? Continue to let him lick my shoes clean? Should I tell him it's okay, and just give him my shoes to clean. He has asked to rub my feet in the past before I knew of his fetish, and I always let him. Have any moms out there experienced this? Is it just simply something he will grow out of?