Kesh - posted on 10/16/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hello moms! I have a 20 month old and every since she was 4 months old, I have worked 2nd shift (2p-10:30p) and don't home until nearly 11:30pm each night and our daughter is already sleep. So my husband has been the one with our daughter most every night (picking her up from daycare, bathtime, dinner, storytime, etc) while I'm working. Recently, when my husband has done something I didn't like (making her eat something while she screams or just being too hard on her) he makes comments to me like "Don't tell me what to do, you can do sit in the car", so basically saying shut-up and go away. Maybe he feels like since I'm not around often, I dont get an opinion and can't tell him what I don't like. I've been holding this in and I'm just fed up. I dont wanna fight but I need to have a voice for our daughter. What has put me over the edge is my mom witnessed his demanding and mean tone with her last night when my husband when over her house to pick up our daughter. She was crying when she told me what happened, how he came in the door fussing at her because she didn't want to give him her paci. She said he was so mean, and our daughter was screaming and he didn't care. She had to leave the room and didn't come back. Moms, I don't know how to say what I need to say and thoroughly get my point across so he understands where I'm coming from.