Jessica - posted on 12/09/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My sons father and I split up about a month ago. He left me for his "friends" wife because she is very influential. He is 22 and she is almost 40 with her oldest son 20. And he 19 year old son his other friend. I don't want to get into details what happens because it's very embarrassing. But we faught and I kicked him out because that's how I always seem to approach him when he is angry and shuts down and lies. This year my father passed away from cancer which we have been battling with him since February 2014. our son and I was very close to him. Then 2 months later my grandfather passed away (my dads dad). The night before my dad passed my ex sat down with him while he was unconscious but just couldn't seem to move on. My ex promised my dad that he would take care of my son and I no matter what. So we were pretty sure that's what he was waiting for. I got pretty bitchy towards my ex and wouldn't except his help coping with things and pushed my self away when dealing with my fathers death. He was my first true love and I was his and I still love him so unbelievably much. I'm willing to do anything to make it work. But he doesn't seem to want it although he has given me signs that he still loves me and care but he also abandoned my son and myself as we are about to be homeless because there is a foreclosure on my dads house that we have lived in for the past 3 yrs. Yes he pays child support but with no state help most of the child support goes to food. And I am not working.. Honestly most will think I'm stupid but I am willing to do anything to make our family work.. Mind you my son has gone through just as much as I this year. Please help me get him back.. Any pointers or tips would be extreamly helpful. And please no bashing.