Hannah - posted on 12/05/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )
i don't know what to do? my ex husband and i split up almost 3yrs ago, and the hostility and vile nature from him has just got worse and worse.. i don't know what to do?? my son is 8yrs old.. i CANNOT live like this for another 8 years..
there are financial issues and access issues... it's very complex? and my little boy, bless him, i think is telling both parents what he 'thinks' they want to hear.. and as a result, my ex and i are arguing over issues which shouldn't exist.
although he doesn't have the confidence to say what he thinks to his dad because he feels intimidated, a factor my ex isn't willing to take into consideration.,
i just don't know, i want to move away, go back to uni etc.. but i know he won't let him go? he only see's him 2 nights every two weeks..
i'm at my wits end.. i really do not want this for me or my little one.. he shouldn't be exposed to this kind of friction between his parents...