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My son's father (do not even want to call him that because he is not my sons father by moral and value) is one those people who classify themselves as a gangster, money lover type people. His environment is all wrong. It is just a party, drug filled life with no moral, no values. I do not want him to be a part of my childs life. I do not want my child being influenced by his lifestyle, to be apart of his environment or be exposed to that lifestyle. Right now he has visitation every Saturday because the family advocate said this needs to happen. It is not a final court order, so therefore I do not have to allow this. I need to know whether there is a way to have him not be apart of my childs life. The family courts etc. are supposed to do what is best for a childs life and having a child be exposed even slightly to such an environment that is unhealthy, and aswell as to society, is not what is best for a child!! It is not what is best for MY child. What I am to do??? I was in his environment for 2 years, I know what that lifestyle is all about. I cannot give up. I just cant allow this to happen. No right minded, good moraled, decent mother/parent would want their child to have a person who conforms to the gangster, gold and guns lifestyle in their lives. what can i do???