Rachel - posted on 11/13/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
my baby daddy and i are not married and his mom has been such a pain. throughout my pregnancy he cheated on me and smoked weed everyday and told me that me and the child were not worth him quitting. his mom told me to just leave him alone because all i did was stress him out and then she told me what to name my son!! she always asks my boyfriend to send her money for bills and gas etc..we are college students and already pinching pennies. after having my son my boyfriend has continued to smoke weed and wont quit. he lies about everything. his family lives 7 hours away and have never came up to meet my son yet expect us to do the traveling down there. they havent sent even a card to him yet my family helped me get a car and has spent hundreds on him already. should i feel obligated to put out all the time and effort for them to meet him or hold my ground on it.