i dont no what to do to keep him around
~â¥Little Miss - posted on 08/19/2015
Then don't let him. Change the locks, tell him to call in advance before coming over...and instead of letting him into your home....meet him somewhere public. I am saying this assuming he does not live with you, but we need more information.
Lynn - posted on 08/19/2015
Your post is pretty short and not really clear of what it is you need help with. But I'm guessing its your baby's father.
So I would say, if you don't like the way he treats you and you guys are not together then don't bother with him. If he wants to see his son, let him. Try this for 6 months. If he doesn't show any interest or doesn't come around to see his son document this and then go file for full legal and physical custody. Once you have that in place wait another 6 months and continue to allow him to see his son, even if he doesn't. Then in 1 year after you allowing him to see his son and he declines you can take him to court for child support.
It makes a better case and is easier rewarded when you can show of all the steps you went to, to cooperate with him and it shows that even after a year aside from that he doesn't see his son that he also has yet to financially support.
If you do this you won't have to deal with his friends or his mental abuse. you may never get him to engage with his son but at least you will get some kind of financial support.
hopefully this helps.
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