Brenda - posted on 09/18/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
okay so my husband left me and my 2 kids back in june... long story short he is now living with his co-worker the girl he had an affer with . she told me in june that they have been together for a year. my husband is a compulsive liar so i dont trust him .. tell me if im wrong for saying this ... my kids are 3 and 4 and i am not willing to allowe my kids to meet her ... i think if he is still with her when they are bigger and they understand whats going on and they would like too meet her then its there choice. i do not want them to have any contact with her specially since she is the person he left us for ,,, note she has two kids of her own and she is still leagally married to her husband... i told him just couse her situation lets youl live with them is all find and dandy dosent mean that our situation willbe the same now is it wrong of me to tell him i dont want my kids around her,,, i dont think its fair to them ...