i feel like im goin to loose it

Sonya N - posted on 12/05/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Hello I am Sonya and I have 3 boys 8,4,2 .I'm nt mommy of the year but I love my kids .my fear is wit my 2 year old he throws a fit I woop him I'm sometime even tune him out but its to the point now I cant tune him out out of the blue he falls out screams fights kick just the most ..I had a episode this mornin wwhere I grabed him and shook him ...while beggin him to shut up ...I'm nt a bad person and I dnt want to harm my child how can I receive help for this cause I dnt want tobe a mmonster to my son


Jodi - posted on 12/05/2013




You SHOOK your child? Unfortunately THAT can harm your child. Children die from being shaken. It sounds to me like you need some anger management. This could really help you with dealing with things calmly. I can understand your frustration, but my solution, when I felt that anger, was to do time out - for me, not for the child. Always, ALWAYS calm down before you deal with it when you are feeling so angry that you may not make the right choices.

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