MARY - posted on 09/18/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
my daughter is 22 years old has a two year old child, and has no initiative what so ever to get out and do anything positive with her life. I have paid for her school, bought her a car to have transportation once the baby came, because the deadbeat father wasn't helping. I have started taking care of the baby to give her the opportunity to go out and search for work, and mainly because I didn't like the babies appearance, that he wasn't eating right, or the smell of smoke all over him. I have spent so much money trying to help her jump start her life, not just for her but for my grand baby as well because I couldn't stand by and see the baby suffer. she still doesn't have a job, I ask her constantly is she looking for one, the answer is always, I'm looking. now she tells me she is moving with this other guy that I have heard rumors, is a street pharmacist, and have recently gotten out of prison!! I have not been able to sleep I have tried to talk to her to tell her that I don't feel that this is the best thing for her to do. And that she needs to focus on getting a job and raising her child first. but she insist that he is so good to her, and I haven't seen that. I am so afraid for her. what can I do?