Carisa - posted on 07/19/2016 ( no moms have responded yet )
I'm hoping to get some support/advice on this topic as I can see it is not just me like my husband thinks. I have an amazing husband & amazing father to our son but it seems for the last few years he has slowly slipped into an obsession with xbox unless i'm nagging him I can't get anything done. So when we recently purchased our home thanks to frontier their was no internet for the first 2 weeks let me say it was amazing I had my husband back. Then I told told him I don't mind that he plays but I want our alone time too. It's like I needed to schedule our sex life around his raids. So he was great for about 3 weeks & now I can see him slowing going back into it. How do you ladies deal with this I feel like it's destroying our marriage. Of course if I try to talk to him I'm being a drama queen. I also want to give you a little background he was not always like this. We have been together for 20 years and married for 10 he wasn't always into video games. Sure he played once in a while but nothing like this. About 3 years ago he hurt his back had surgery and has been out of work ever since & we have a 2 year old so it works out great right???? Well he has since then turned to xbox most likely because he was bored but now it seems like an obsession. He says I'm jelious of the xbox and that is just not true I simply want him to spend some free time with me.