User - posted on 11/24/2013 ( 165 moms have responded )
I'm currently 4 months pregnant and I slept with this married man hoping to get pregnant. I lied and told him I was on birth control. I don't want to be with him or steal him from his wife, I just wanted a child. The only reason I slept with him was because I knew that he wouldn't want anything to do with the child since he's married and I rather be a single mom. When I told him I was pregnant he freaked and said he wanted nothing to do with the kid or me, and I was happy because my plan was working. I pretended to be sad so he wouldn't get suspicious. When I told my so-called friend what I did she said I was wrong, and that I'm a slut and blah blah. I said I didn't care and that I was happy that I was going to have a baby.
However, she pulled a B**CH move and told him what I did. I don't think his wife knows, but I'm really scared of what he might do now that he knows what I did.
I'm scared he might try to hurt me or kill my baby.
I'm not asking for maintenance. That's the last thing I want because it would give him access to my child and I don't want him anywhere near it EVER, and I already have money saved.
Is it possible for me to get a restraining order if he hasn't done anything yet?
Should I move and change my name?
Also I'm fairly sure he won't want custody because he's married and doesn't want his wife to find out.