I had my 1st child on Sept. 8,2010 and he passed Sept.10,2010.I am not sure how or if I should celebrate his birthday and what do i do?
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JuLeah - posted on 06/07/2011
Humm ... I am sorry for your loss. There is no right answer here, no should or ought to.
Go with your heart.
Some folks I have heard of in similar situations light a candle and say a few words, some write a letter and read it out loud, some have family around, some want to be alone .... Some visit a grave if there is one, some might even have a birthday party .... no wrong answers. I assume it be hard enough getting through the day, so don't add the pressure of what you 'ought to' be doing. Follow your emotions and whatever you do or don't do will be the right thing for you
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