i hate my step daughter

Michelle - posted on 03/11/2015 ( 16 moms have responded )

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She has a very bad temper toward me she has beat me. And threw me off the couch she as called awful names to me and I'm going to counseling know at this point I can't even stand to look at her or be around her my husband always takes her side over mine

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Michelle - posted on 03/15/2015

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Well here is a up date today went well. As expected still alot to accomplish in this journey of my step daughter. There is still tension in the house.kids are up stairs so everything is calm right know

Jodi - posted on 03/14/2015

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She's 16. She's old enough to decide who she wants to live with. If this is what she wants, then great. But you still need to learn to build a relationship with her for the sake of your husband.

Michelle - posted on 03/14/2015

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We have decided to let her move in with her mom think it would be best for her and us my husband has seen How hard I've been trying and How she has been treating me

Michelle - posted on 03/14/2015

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So here is a up date to my situation It's still bad my step daughter is still being a bitch to me I've tried to connect with her but I just get additude my husbands advice is in time but I hate living this way I've been trying so hard every time I walk in room she runs out we can't even do anything together without her having additude she want even try

Denise - posted on 03/13/2015

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I would say that your husband is wrong in doing this, to me this only fuel his daughters attitude towards you, both of you and your husband should be united towards her so that she knows that this is something that will not be tolerated by his and it would also show her that he supporting you as his wife. I Hope you get it sorted

Jodi - posted on 03/12/2015

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Well, of course you aren't part of the problem. You clearly have a demonstrated skill managing relationships with people.....No offence, but if you have had 7 marriages, either you are attracted to losers (as suggested by a previous poster) or you aren't so hot at the relationship with people thing and your communication skills could actually do with some refinement....or both.

I am assuming you mean bad attitude? So if this child has such a bad attitude toward you, why did you marry this man? How long have you been married?

Michelle - posted on 03/12/2015

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My step daughter is 16 and no I'm not the problem she has a bad addictive with me everything I open my mouth

Jodi - posted on 03/12/2015

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7 marriages? What happened to the other six??? Has it occurred to you that you may be the issue?

I'm just going to say that "hate" is a very strong word. How old is she?

Michelle - posted on 03/11/2015

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I go to counseling and they are starting counseling with children services the child called the police at school yesterday said I had a pistol and was financial kill her her dad and my self so children services came out yesterday I had to take a drug screen and they searched or gun but we don't own one

Raye - posted on 03/11/2015

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You've been married 7 times? I'm sorry to be the one to point it out, but you might be attracted to losers. If you love your husband, then you need to work with him to control his daughter. You should get into counseling to help your self-esteem and stand up for yourself with her and demand respect from your husband. Get them into counseling, too, because it won't work if you're the only one trying to make it work.

Raye - posted on 03/11/2015

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Why do you stay in that relationship? If he and his daughter don't respect you or listen to you, then what's keeping you there?

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