Lucy - posted on 02/29/2016 ( 14 moms have responded )
So this is the second time I have found screenshots of naked girls in my husbands phone the pictures were taken off the back pages. They are escorts and strippers. Their numbers are there. He says he would never cheat, but he's been lying and hiding this stuff so I don't really trust him. He wants to go to his co workers friend bachelor party. He doesn't know the guy but wants to get these girls he picked out to go... I don't like the idea of him going, or going to strip clubs! Unless I'm going with him. He says he can look and do what he wants and he won't cheat that I should be happy that he's coming home to me. Okay fine. But I have tons of friends that are strippers and are always trying to get me to do it or do ammature night. I used to go go dancing for raves and make really good money. Now my husband is really against that, but I kinda miss that lifestyle. Not the party life but by being sexy and wanted. If my husband gets to go out and watch other naked girls and order these women for some random guy and be in that inviroment then why can't I do ammature night? He would divorce me on the spot if I did. I do not like watching naked guys or doing the male strip club thing. That's gross to me and not my thing. If my husband gets arrosed by other women and watch them. Then why can't I get aroused by guys watching me and giving me compliments. They can't touch me, I'm coming home to him? He said if I did that he would divorce me. But he wants to go to strip clubs and bachelor parties. I think we are at that marriage point we are spending too much time together and the honey moon stage is over. Btw I'm 22 and he's 30 and this is his second marriage. I really hate when he says well I'm coming home to you. Even though he's horny and wanting to have sex but probably fantasizing about the girls he just watched on stage...