Elisabeth - posted on 02/15/2014 ( 9 moms have responded )
My child is 2 years old and her father wasnt there for the first 7 months and have been in and out of her life. He was consistant for a little bit and than when he isnt again he has every excuse in the book. He isnt allowed to be alone with her at all.This last time he was gone for three weeks and i am so sick of it. It hurts my child and I can see thats. He also tells her very inappropriate things that are sexual and mean things about me. I dont know what to do. No where in the court papers does it say he has visitation but it is just and automatic rule that he does. The other problem i have with him that even when he is here he neglects her. I have to tell him him when to change diaper what to feed her and whens nap and bath time. I feel like im watching two kids. I was thinking about taking hime back to court to take away visitation nut i dont really even know if he has any. Please any advise would be awesome.