Nicole - posted on 01/19/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
So that the youngest has someone to grow up with as well? I can't decide to save my life! I want another baby girl, but I also don't think I want to divide my love or attention from the youngest. Anyone else in a similar situation? Please help! Also if I do have another one, I don't know to do it NOW or wait until he is older. The other two are FINALLY starting to get out of that Bickering over everything stage. But it has also been great having such a big gap between my last 2 children because the older ones can help out a lot. I just don't know if I should wait or not have another one at all. Xander loves playing with other kids. And the older ones don't have anything in common with him. Do you think he will want a sibling? I was the oldest of 4, And I know I went nuts with all the fighting and such. But then theres also the fact that he doesn't have the same father and I kinda want him to have a sibling. Im sooo stuck on this decision. It's a I WANT, But I DONT WANT situation. I want him to have another sibling, I don't want the fighting, And I like the quietness. I don't want to divide my love or attention...God knows he LOVES attention! Any suggestions? Please keep in mind, I'm Still young. Haven't even hit 35 yet.