I have a 16 year old girl dating another 16 year old for two years. At first, I thought he was the best thing for her, but things have turned sour pretty quickly. I found out about a year ago, that he's been drinking and getting high, and then she told me he stopped. Two days ago, his mom put him in a behavior health center for 11 days. I had lunch with his mom. He's been getting high and always drunk, steals her car. He got pulled over by the cops at gunpoint because he he was drunk/high and joyriding on a golf cart and when the cops pulled him over, he had a pellet gun in the back of his pants. his mother also told me, she's been finding drug paraphanelia in his room, and recently found baggies and a scale in his room, which means he's also dealing now. Now, we're both 100 percent sure my daughter is not involved in that. they're constantly fighting apparently because she's yelling at him for his drug and alcohol problem. My daughter's an honor student at school and very involved in school activities, doesn't go to parties, and and has two part time jobs and doesn't have time to get involved in bad stuff like that. She's constantly making excuses for her boyfriend and never will admit that he's doing anything wrong. I seriously need her to break up with him before it totally destroys her because of all the stress that she's under. I have no idea how to go about that. Any idea? I don't want to lose her to him, because he's only going to bring her down.
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Danyale - posted on 08/30/2014
Ur her mother....an as much as she is gonna hate u, ground her from having any thing to do with him!! All though it's not her fault wht he's got his self into....it's gonna turn into her doin the same thing tht he is or it's gonna go to far an he's gonna start beating her an she is gonna be to scared to leave him...I remember being 16 an my mother tellin me to stay away from the guy I had been with since I was 14 an ended up 16 yrs later with 2 kids an I didn't graduate high school so I was a stay at home mother....after 16 yrs of verbal an some physical abuse I packed mine an my kids stuff an left....I kno u dnt want tht life for ur daughter, an I certainly dnt want it for any ones daughter! I tell my kids if u dnt hate me at least once in ur life then I'm not doin my job.....good luck
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