Lindsey Marie - posted on 10/18/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
His father and I are in a extremely long relationship and are having problems. Mostly due to his treatment and lack of attention to our son since his diagnosis, He has since moved out and stops by on his way to and from work. My son gets disability and since getting it my sons father doesn't want to give me any money whatsoever or buy things for Kam himself. He has admitted to me that he cannot handle our son but will keep him if I ask, which unless I absolutely have to I don't. He has a temper and our parenting styles are completely different. I am trying to get on my feet by myself and work out him seeing our son on a schedule without the courts involved. We are two adults and should be able to work this out. He will not set up a schedule to see our son and thinks he can keep coming over here whenever he wants. How do I work this out without ending up hating my first love?