I have a 20 year old son who does not pay rent and does not clean up

Janice - posted on 08/21/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My 20 year old son who does not pay rent and does not clean up. I have 3 bedrooms my mother has one, my daughter the other, and I the third one. My son sleeps in the livingroom. He's in the US Marines reserve. He has all his clothes and military belongings in my daughter"s room scattered all in her room.My daughter has asthma and his things are in her way, she's 16. I constantly asks and tell him t o clean the mess he ignores me. I did not teach him to be a slob and I'm sure the military didn't teach him to be a slob either. I want him out my hose because it's causing friction in my house. How do I go about it without any drama. I'm the head of household, my mom, and my fiance and I pay the rent and bills. I need your help in this issue.

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Janice - posted on 09/16/2015

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I sent pics of the mess and I had my so served with eviction notice, he has to be out by 9/30/15.

Jodi - posted on 08/21/2015

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Except, Cassie, she will disempower herself as the parent and head of the household. It really isn't his commanding officer's job to parent him in his mother's house.

Jcmr4 - posted on 08/21/2015

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Is he still in the Marines? If so, I would take a pic of his mess and tell him you're going to send it to his commanding officer if things don't change. My son is a Marine and that kind of behavior is unacceptable!

Jodi - posted on 08/21/2015

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Do you have a rental/board contract? If not, do one. If he won't abide by it, ask him to leave. If he won't leave, change the locks.

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