I have a situation, I've been in a relationship with my youngest son's father for about 23months now, but since I received the baby's social security card he's been demanding me to give him his info. About 2wks ago, he asked me if he can claim the baby on his taxes, I told I'm not sure , but I told him I was thinking about claiming him & my daughter from a previous relationship. He said why won't I jus claim my daughter & let him claim his son, I said I don't know. He brought the issue up again last night & I still told him I'm not sure. So today he was acting very different & acting like he didn't want to talk. But still pressuring me as to why I don't let him be a father to his son & give him his social security number. He's calling me selfish & he no longer wants to be in a relationship because of this. He knows I don't trust him with the baby's info. I went through similar things with my daughter, I can't just give out my son's info like its nothing. I told him that my son is not a dollar sign & he feels insulted. First of all , we live in 2 different households & the baby lives with me & I'm the one he's with most of the time, I have medical coverage & everything for the baby. Even though we are together, not married & the father's name is on the birth certificate I just don't feel comfortable in giving out the baby's social, I'm protecting my son's identity. Am I wrong for not giving the social security number to the father & am I wrong for not letting the father claim the baby on his taxes?

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