i have a step daughter i haven't seen in a year and she doesn't know english now what

Minni - posted on 12/04/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i have a stepdaughter dalia she was 2 mnths with us 2 with her mother but a year ago my husband went back to veracruz to visit and took dalia with him she wanted to stay so let her, they have begged him every month to keep her but finally he's bringing her home and i know she liked it there not being shuffled back between home and i mean from chicago ti ky every few months she wants to see us but she said she wants her nanna to come with her and on top of all that she has lost her english, i don't speak spanish i've tried spent hundreds but i can't pick it up. i'm confused for her whats best to come home and be shuffled or to stay with her nanna oh she's 5 by the way, i would like to have her here with us so she can know her sister and family here why don't she want the same?

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Minni - posted on 12/05/2010

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i'm afraid when she's older she'll be hurt and wonder why we kept laila and not her what if she blames me? if only her mom and dad would agree on one home and the other visit or set up stay overs but it couldn't last forever she has school to star her bio. mom wants her to be in home school that way she can be with both frequently she thinks thats whats best for her

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She needs stability and which ever home will give her that the most. VISITS in other homes are fine, but shuffling back and forth to completely different environments so frequently couldn't possibly be in her best interest. As for the rest and all the details.... sorry, no clue.

Minni - posted on 12/04/2010

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you think it could br the daycare there she just stays with her nanna. they want us to send papers so she can star school there because she start this fall here and she needs to be around english as soon as possible to be easier on her, but she has alot of cousins there to play with all day too what to do what to do?

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