Tiffany - posted on 01/06/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have a similar problem with my children and boyfriend, they can not get along at all. At various times each side has made attempts to get along without success. We have tried to live together and it was a disaster. My bf and the kids faught like crazy and we moved back out. I have continued to see him but only when the kids are with their dad. He showed up 1 night at 12:30 am and the kids were home and a huge fight broke out with him and the kids and the kids called their dad to come get them from my house and the oldest 2 have not come back to live with me yet, they are 19 & 16, my youngest is 11 and has continued to spend time with me. This has been a long 4 1/2 yrs and I see his good qualities too but I am always feeling like I am defending my children with him. I am very upset that he won't be more mature and over look some of their behavior at times.