Tamara_thomas03 - posted on 04/20/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
He has wished death and rape on me...cussed at me and has no problem telling me that he wishes I break my neck. How much of his abuse should I take? I have sacrificed for her, taking the abuse for a long time...she is the reason I tolerated it at all. Even after the verbal nastiness, I still set up a skype schedule so they could communicate. He was inconsistent, and when I inquired why the lag, he cussed me again. It was the final straw. I cut off communication. I have sent word through his family that some issues have to be addressed before we can resume communication. He has asked to speak with her, but I have said no. Not until some issues of respect are addressed. Some people have said I should still let them speak, that it is not about me, that its about my daughter. They have said I am putting her in the middle. Any advice.