i have just found out that my children dont like my husband.

Maita - posted on 02/25/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i have just founf out that my older children dont like my husband of 13 years. they want me to attend their graduations but not bring him with me. when i married their father i told my parents that i didnt expect them to like him or even love him but accept him as my choice. i have lived by this my entire life and expect my children to do the same. i know its not easy but am i wrong?

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Michelle - posted on 02/25/2012

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If they do not want him at their special event it is their choice, just as he is your choice. So now it is up to you to decide do you miss this special occasion or do you suck it up and go without your significant other. It is your choice to have him in your life, and since these children seem to be older you can not force him into theirs.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 02/25/2012

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They can accept him as YOUR choice, but obviously do not choose him as their "father". Just their mothers husband.

Maita - posted on 02/25/2012

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i know its not easy since i have step parents that i dont like but do accept as my parents choice. i am nice and have them over for dinners and weekend visits.

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