I just CAN'T stand the BM

Hollie - posted on 06/19/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )

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The BM of my 2 DSD's ages 6 and 3 is just a witch!
Making CPS phone calls every 2 days is just horrid enough. But now she all of a sudden wants to see my 2 DSD's. First reaction hum how long are you going to stay in their life this time! DH doesnt wanna deal with another visitation of letting BM have them and then shes off to disappear again, supposingly drinking with her friends is much more important than her children!


Shes been gone for soo many months and then just wants to RE up and start seeing them again!
What should me and my DH do?

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Jenni - posted on 06/19/2011

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Yes, but do you tell them you know that it's the BM trying to harrass you?
Do they find anything when they come to your house?
Because if they're not finding anything and the same person keeps calling on you, I can't see why they're wasting resources coming out. I'm pretty sure they know who's calling, the person has to give their name and information to file a report. That's how they avoid false claims that are personal and meant to harrass.

Jenni - posted on 06/19/2011

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Well if she keeps calling CPS on false claims they will eventually get fed up with her and they can possibly charge her for it.

I'm surprised they haven't told her to stop phoning in false claims if she calls every two days? How long has she been calling them for? and what do the CPS workers tell you about it?

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Hollie - posted on 06/19/2011

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by law they have to come out and have so much time to come out and check every compliant, last week 6 reports!

Jenni - posted on 06/19/2011

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Oh and also, do you know they have no right to come in your house? You do not have to let any government official in your house without a warrant. And in order for them to get a warrarnt there has to be evidence. Not just a claim.

I would tell them you're not willing to speak with them until they have a warrant. If it's gone on for a long time and they are finding nothing, then it's just harrassment.

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