I just don't know what to do when it comes to my boyfriend and his exwife

Stephanie - posted on 03/23/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My boyfriend just got out of his second divorce and his daughter of that marriage is now 18 months old. He loves his daughter to death and would do anything for her. He always pays his child support and loves seeing her when we get her. He doesn't get over night visits till June and it's really upsetting him. She turns 2 in September.



His exwife never includes my boyfriend him anything. He's never told about doctors appointments or dentist visits or hospital visits until days after they've already occurred.



Him and I have a 28 month old that turns 3 in November. The 2 babies love spending time together and get along great



His exwife never communicates with him in a normal attitude. She is bipolar and always blows up about everything. She yells at him for the little girl getting dirty or for us hanging out with someone that she doesn't like.



I love my boyfriend dearly and support his relationship with his daughter and our son and his 14 year old. I don't know how to support his relationship with his exwife because of how she emotionally abuses him about their daughter. She always threatens to take the little girl away and not let him see her even though their is a court order. We have tried to get her in trouble for not showing up before but the court did nothing.



Any advice please? I have no idea what to do about his exwife. It's not good for his daughter or any of us. PLEASE HELP!!!

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Rachel - posted on 03/23/2012

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Ok im confused... u and him have an almost 3 year old and his daughter with his ex wife is almost 2? In my opinion it is his job to deal with his exwife and his concerns with his daughter. if he has to maybe he could take it to mediation or something like that. just try to foster a healthy relationship with all the children and their father.

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Rachel - posted on 03/23/2012

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o ok well i would let him deal with her. that is his responsibility she was his wife not yours. just be supportive with his relationship with all of his children

Stephanie - posted on 03/23/2012

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him and i were together before he knew her and he made a mistake with her and they were only married a month before splitting up because of her "escorting".

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