I just found out my husband cheated

Shanoah - posted on 09/05/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




Weve been married for 2 yrs, and been together for 6 yrs before that. We have a 1 yr old daugther. My husband got a text message while he was in the other room with my daughter. I checked it, but it was only a dogers news alert. Then i saw texts from a girl named melissa, i opened them. They were dirty messages incoming and outgoing. I was in shock and walked right into the other room. My husband saw my face and asked what was wrong. I simply said i just found out you are cheating on me. And ran out of the room. he followed me and said he made a mistake. I dont know where to go from here. I cant breathe, i cant sleep, i cant eat. I dont know if this could be fixed. Or how to fix it. I need advice and/or someone whos been through this.


Gena - posted on 09/05/2013




I personaly would tell my husband to leave..i dont think i would be able to handle the pain,disgust and i certanly wouldnt be able to trust or love him the same way any more.Thankfully i havent had to go through this in my marriage. But you must find out whats the best for you and maybe if you feel counseling could work then try it.Maybe it could help if you go away from him for a few days to think about the whole situation and come to clear mind on how you are going to deal with it. Sry for what you have to go through.Good luck and never give up

Kim - posted on 09/05/2013




It entirely depends on you and how you want to proceed. That is rough, I have been there. You might never regain complete trust, but if your marriage still has love and is worth saving, get help to do so immediately. You need to talk to him about what happened and why. It is going to hurt for some time.

The biggest of hugs I can send online!


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