Bianca - posted on 01/29/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
I'm so confused. I need help to know what I should do, and I have no one to turn to that has been through the samething.
My boyfriend has a 1month old baby boy, the mother of the child is one I socialise with (even before I met him).
I don't know where I stand with things:
The mother of the child invites me to come visit her and the baby, but my boyfriend has never asked me to meet his son.
The mother sends me loads pictures of their son.
My family tell me to tell him to get a DNA test done, but I if like I have no right to do that
He never tells me when he is going to send time with his son, he kind of ignores me when he does.
He never talks to me about his son, only when he is mad at the mom and family does he say thing about it.
People tell me that a child changes the way people feel for other people.
Listen I would not blame him if he left me because of his son, a little boy needs their father.
I just don't get where I stand because he says I'm part of his life and my family says he is living a double life and that I should be worried.