Terina - posted on 08/10/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
i look after a freinds boy ( i am being paid ) so she can work full time i have him from 9 til 5 every day monday to fri in the holidays and monday to friday 3 till 5 during term time .
he has always been a bit lazy when it comes to going to the loo , wetting himself neqarly every day when i 1st had him , he has cut down the amount of accidents he has but i constantly need to ask him if he needs to go as he bounces around holds his bits but he always says no, one time i went into the bathroom after him and he left a discusitng mess of poo on my loo seats i asked if he had an accident he said no so i assumed he didnt wipe himsef and i got him to clear it up when his mum came to collect him i had told her and she agreed i did the right thing, later that night i got a call from her ,he had an accident at mine after all , i was surprised that a 6 yr would poo themselves and spend the rest of the day playing like nothing happened! his mum was adament it was because he was embarassed which of course i understand but if he just went he wouldnt be embarassed iin the 1st place . he lies all the time about the stupidest of things such as needing the loo then lying if he has an accident , to being really sneaky with things that if you walk into a room he will stop whatever he is doing completely so u never really know what he doing ! i dont know what to do really i have to make him go to the toilet by telling him off before he pees everwhere which is frustrating cos he knows better but worse cos hes not mine . i have to literally baby him make sure he goes to the loo when he needs it washes his hands drinks a drink its becoming really anoying . how would you guys deal with this , remeber this is my job at the mo so kinda have to accept it some ways or do i ??