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User - posted on 01/10/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My husband just told me he wants a separation after 12 and half years.he said he's not happy.Then I found out he's having feelings for a coworker that he haven't seen over ten years because she lives in Florida. I don't know how to act around him because he gives me mix singles sometimes and we have to boys 6yrs. and 11year old..what's wrong with this picture??I never thought our problems were that serious

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Jodi - posted on 01/10/2014

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Have you considered counselling together? After all, having feelings for someone else doesn't need to be the end, it may be just a matter of working through the reasons he is having these feelings. It may just be that something is missing from your marriage (and that doesn't mean you are to blame, just that things have changed and it isn't working for him).

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Jodi - posted on 01/10/2014

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So did the door hit him in the arse hard on his way out? Because that's the point at which I'd have shown him the door and told him he could only come back when he got his shit together.

User - posted on 01/10/2014

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He said counseling is not going to help and I asked again after his trip and he said I'll go and I didn't mention it again for about two weeks.then new years came we were together..then we're sitting on the couch and his phone rings,guess who? I said you're still talking to her and he said yes..I almost fainted for the second time..He saidhe didn't know why he was going to counseling because nothing changed.

Jodi - posted on 01/10/2014

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Wow... so he is happy to give up that easily? He has no right to do that in my opinion. He could at least extend you AND your children the courtesy of attending counselling to work through this, no matter what the outcome may end up being.

User - posted on 01/10/2014

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Thaxs Jodi..... Counseling was the first topic of my list..he said he just don't feel us anymore.. Then he bought a ticket two weeks before Christmas to see this women, that has two kids of her own..What the was he thinking.. Leaving our family for four days..but still pulls like a rubber band.Confusing

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