I'm 12 and have a HUGE crush on a 15 year old

Ashlynn - posted on 12/01/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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So I'm 12 and me and this boy met at the roller skating rink. We would talk every once and a while when we were there and he asked for my number and of course I gave it to him because he's very cute :P We've been texting and Skypeing a lot and we have developed strong feeling for each other. Me and him will soon be boyfriend and girlfriend. He's a VERY good person! He goes to a (private) catholic school, he has very good grades and is funny, nice and understanding. We know like everything about eachother. He always talks to his family and parents about me. But here's the issue my mom doesn't know anything about this. So my mom knows I have boyfriends and she doesn't really like it but she knows. She's a single mom and im the youngest of two so I'm her "baby" and I understand why she doesn't like me having boyfriends and doesn't want me to grow up. But I'm VERY searious about Keaton and he's searious about me. I need my mom to allow us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. So someone PLEASE tell me how I can tell my mother this with her allowing it.

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Sarah - posted on 12/02/2014

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If you completely trusted your mom you would not be withholding this information from her. You are holding back because you know what she will say. Trust is a two way street and the longer you hold back the less likely she will trust you to be honest in the future.
Does she know you are on this site?

Jodi - posted on 12/02/2014

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You are 12. You shouldn't even be signing up for this website and clearly didn't read the rules.

He's 15. Too old for you. You are not serious, you just think you are. You are too young for a boyfriend.

Ashlynn - posted on 12/01/2014

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I completely trust my mom, we talk about everything together but this just REALLY scares me to talk to her about. I'm afraid she won't allow me to see him or talk to him because we have feelings about eachother. We don't even have to date we can just hang out with each other and be friends but again im worried my mom won't let us hang out because we really like eachother and im 12 and he's 15.

Sarah - posted on 12/01/2014

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Again, you are TWELVE, stick to roller skating with your girlfriends and leave the boys out of the picture for few years. It may seem forever but it isn't and when you are 16 it will all the better. Why have you not been forthcoming with your mom all along? Talking to your mom will build trust. You may not agree or like what she has to say about you dating, but she loves you. My daughter is 15 and she talks to me about boys and her crushes all of the time. So sad that you don't trust your mom.

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