I'm 13, I've tested pregnancy test kit earlier, and it says it's positive. How to tell my mom? my dad? Please help mothers! :'((((

Xin Carla - posted on 03/27/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I'm 2 weeks delayed eventhough my period is regular. Yes, I do have sex with my 3 years boyfriend. But I dunno if he cum inside me, I didn't even told him about this. But he knows I'm 2 weeks delayed. Please help me on how to break the news! Please please please :'(((((

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/27/2013

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Honey, I'm totally in agreement with Dove:

and this is my "mom" advice: First of all, NO MORE SEX until you understand the totality of the action and any possible consequences. Second, if you feel that you cannot talk to your parents, or that you would be putting yourself into physical danger by doing so, you need to find a trusted adult (a teacher, counselor, pastor/priest, aunt, grandmother) to confide in and that will help you.

I'll tell ya, your parents are not going to react well. You're a baby yourself, you made a very adult decision, and are facing some possible consequences that will have you wrapped up for the rest of your life. The sooner you get under medical care, the better, because by your very young age, you are in the "risk" area.

Good luck.

Dove - posted on 03/27/2013

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Just come out with it. I have no doubt that they will be upset... You are 13 and still a child who has no business having sex... or even having a boyfriend... and for 3 YEARS (or is he 3 years older than you?)?! If it's positive... you are pregnant and I'm sorry no one gave you enough sex ed to understand this process.

But... if your parents love you... after they calm down... they will get you the help and support you need to make the decisions that are right for you and your child.

If you are afraid to talk to your parents... do you have an aunt, teacher, friend's mom, etc... that you can confide in who will help you tell them?

Bottom line (imo.. AS a mother)... if you think you are old enough to be having sex then you'd better be mature enough to handle all of the consequences. Good luck! And please tell them as soon as possible because you and your baby are in need of medical care and monitoring.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/27/2013

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Well actually by your profile, you are only 12.

I agree with every single word the other 2 ladies have said. Come out with it ASAP. You will not be able to hide this forever. And in the meantime, seriously get some sex ed.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/28/2013

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But, biologically speaking, she could be pregnant. Some girls start menstruating early. I started 1 month after i turned 11. My sister started at 9-10. My other sister was about 13. You just never know. I could see her being preggo, I just don't understand how kids so young have any joy what so ever in sex. I started at 17, and it took me years to start enjoying it for what it really was worth.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/28/2013

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Yep. Go look at her page. It says birthday is Oct 4, 2000. That would make her 12 1/2. Not 13.

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Dove - posted on 03/28/2013

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Oh... I totally know she could be pregnant. Just don't know why she would lie about either her age or her birthday since it's easy enough to check on (I did after your post) here....

Dove - posted on 03/27/2013

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Really Little Miss? In that case... I am hopeful that this may be a troll and not really a pregnant 12 year old. Either that or she doesn't know her own birthday... in which I have a whole lot more concern.

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